There's been a whole lot of talk the last few years about what authors need to do to promote themselves.
Well, I am now going to weigh in on this topic. I know, you readers have been DYING to hear my opinion on the subject, and you can't believe your luck. Quite honestly I'm surprised that you all have hung around reading my snoozapalooza posts long enough to hear my opinion on the subject. But now you're dearest wish is about to be fulfilled.
You are so welcome. Glad I could oblige.
I've been giving this a lot of thought. You see, I've had a lot of time on my hands as I wait to actually sell a book. So I figured I'd get an early start on the self-promotion thing and see what happens.
Well, obviously, not much. Because one thing I have learned is that it's a whole lot easier to self-promote if you have something you're promoting. You know, like a published book you've written.
But I have learned a few things that I do think are important to know. They are (in no particular order):
1. It's more important to enjoy yourself than it is to promote yourself.
Yes, I do believe this. I will let you in on a little secret: I did start this blog because I wanted to get my name out there into the world. Name recognition can be a good thing. However, I also started this blog because I genuinely like to blog. It's kinda like writing those journals I used to write when I was a teenager. (And I wrote a LOT of those. Seriously, I think I filled at least 7 or 8 in about four or five years.) And I really like the freedom of writing something spontaneously, with only a few minor edits as I go. Sometimes the constant revision process really gets to me, and this blog is a place where I can feel a little more free. (I am well aware that it is probably not a good idea to be so spontaneous on a blog, but I doubt I'll be changing that anytime soon. I'm just not very good at plotting things out beforehand. It's the process of making it up as I go along that excites me the most.)
Anyway, through that last paragraph of ramble-y randomness, I was trying to point out how much I ENJOY doing what I'm doing. I genuinely enjoy my silly tweets about my imaginary twitter empire, which is currently locked in a struggle of monumental proportions against another empire who will remain nameless as to not give that empire any leverage with which to thwart me (just check out my tweets to see this struggle in all its glory). I genuinely love reading comments from the few people who actually comment on my FB or blog. I love Verla's message boards where I hang out waaaaaay too much and lament about the weather. (Do you know it has snowed at my house this week? Seriously, what is up with the weather?)
But I also love to talk on the phone. Or hang out in person and chat with someone for hours. I like knowing things and being involved in projects. I like being in the middle of things.
So if I didn't genuinely enjoy social networking, I could self-promote until I'm blue in the face but it probably wouldn't do me any good. Because people can spot a fake a mile away. And if you aren't enjoying yourself, people will know. And they won't want to hang around someone who is such a drag. I'm just sayin'...
2. If you're going to self-promote, the best thing you can do is be approachable.
What do I mean about being approachable? Well, for one, actually reply to comments from your readers. I try to reply to every comment I get (which, sadly enough, is really easy to do since I usually have less than a dozen comments to worry about). I love it when someone takes the time to reply to my comments. I'm betting my readers feel the same way, so I want to make sure to encourage them. Plus I really really love keeping the conversation going, so it's a no-brainer for me.
But being approachable also means leaving your little blog bubble and visiting others'. I don't do it as much as I should, but it's so sad to find a blog post that I've really enjoyed and notice that there has been ZERO comments on it. Don't you think that blogger would love to know how great his/her blog entry was, or how it made me think in a new way about something, or just made me laugh? So comment widely and spread the wealth. I firmly believe that a single blog commenter can change the world for good. Plus it's a great way to enlarge your circle of "friends" while doing something enjoyable. (Well, I find it enjoyable, anyway.)
3. Whatever you do, it's enough.
I know. You're scratching your head over that one. You usually hear "there's always more you can be doing." Well, I disagree. Kinda. Well, not really. Let me explain.
Sure, there is always something more you can do to promote yourself. ALWAYS. But does that mean you should do it?
Absolutely not.
I know so many authors who have done so much to promote themselves that they've practically collapsed from exhaustion. And not a bit of it made any difference to their books' bottom lines. And I've known other authors who've done nothing and have had runaway success. I've also known some who've done a lot and it's made a huge difference in their success as authors. And I've known some who've done nothing and have had nothing happen in return.
So what do I really mean? What I'm trying to say is that you should do what you think you can. And if you do, it'll be enough. Don't feel guilty that you aren't doing more.
Do what you can. It'll be enough.
Repeat with me.
Do what you can. It'll be enough.
4. The best promotion is word of mouth.
So give those mouths something to talk about. Write the BEST BOOK you can, and then get to work on the next BEST BOOK you can write. Writing good books over and over again is the best way to promote yourself.
And if you happen to mention my blog to a friend, I won't mind. Because word of mouth really is the best way to spread the word.
Well, I am now going to weigh in on this topic. I know, you readers have been DYING to hear my opinion on the subject, and you can't believe your luck. Quite honestly I'm surprised that you all have hung around reading my snoozapalooza posts long enough to hear my opinion on the subject. But now you're dearest wish is about to be fulfilled.
You are so welcome. Glad I could oblige.
I've been giving this a lot of thought. You see, I've had a lot of time on my hands as I wait to actually sell a book. So I figured I'd get an early start on the self-promotion thing and see what happens.
Well, obviously, not much. Because one thing I have learned is that it's a whole lot easier to self-promote if you have something you're promoting. You know, like a published book you've written.
But I have learned a few things that I do think are important to know. They are (in no particular order):
1. It's more important to enjoy yourself than it is to promote yourself.
Yes, I do believe this. I will let you in on a little secret: I did start this blog because I wanted to get my name out there into the world. Name recognition can be a good thing. However, I also started this blog because I genuinely like to blog. It's kinda like writing those journals I used to write when I was a teenager. (And I wrote a LOT of those. Seriously, I think I filled at least 7 or 8 in about four or five years.) And I really like the freedom of writing something spontaneously, with only a few minor edits as I go. Sometimes the constant revision process really gets to me, and this blog is a place where I can feel a little more free. (I am well aware that it is probably not a good idea to be so spontaneous on a blog, but I doubt I'll be changing that anytime soon. I'm just not very good at plotting things out beforehand. It's the process of making it up as I go along that excites me the most.)
Anyway, through that last paragraph of ramble-y randomness, I was trying to point out how much I ENJOY doing what I'm doing. I genuinely enjoy my silly tweets about my imaginary twitter empire, which is currently locked in a struggle of monumental proportions against another empire who will remain nameless as to not give that empire any leverage with which to thwart me (just check out my tweets to see this struggle in all its glory). I genuinely love reading comments from the few people who actually comment on my FB or blog. I love Verla's message boards where I hang out waaaaaay too much and lament about the weather. (Do you know it has snowed at my house this week? Seriously, what is up with the weather?)
But I also love to talk on the phone. Or hang out in person and chat with someone for hours. I like knowing things and being involved in projects. I like being in the middle of things.
So if I didn't genuinely enjoy social networking, I could self-promote until I'm blue in the face but it probably wouldn't do me any good. Because people can spot a fake a mile away. And if you aren't enjoying yourself, people will know. And they won't want to hang around someone who is such a drag. I'm just sayin'...
2. If you're going to self-promote, the best thing you can do is be approachable.
What do I mean about being approachable? Well, for one, actually reply to comments from your readers. I try to reply to every comment I get (which, sadly enough, is really easy to do since I usually have less than a dozen comments to worry about). I love it when someone takes the time to reply to my comments. I'm betting my readers feel the same way, so I want to make sure to encourage them. Plus I really really love keeping the conversation going, so it's a no-brainer for me.
But being approachable also means leaving your little blog bubble and visiting others'. I don't do it as much as I should, but it's so sad to find a blog post that I've really enjoyed and notice that there has been ZERO comments on it. Don't you think that blogger would love to know how great his/her blog entry was, or how it made me think in a new way about something, or just made me laugh? So comment widely and spread the wealth. I firmly believe that a single blog commenter can change the world for good. Plus it's a great way to enlarge your circle of "friends" while doing something enjoyable. (Well, I find it enjoyable, anyway.)
3. Whatever you do, it's enough.
I know. You're scratching your head over that one. You usually hear "there's always more you can be doing." Well, I disagree. Kinda. Well, not really. Let me explain.
Sure, there is always something more you can do to promote yourself. ALWAYS. But does that mean you should do it?
Absolutely not.
I know so many authors who have done so much to promote themselves that they've practically collapsed from exhaustion. And not a bit of it made any difference to their books' bottom lines. And I've known other authors who've done nothing and have had runaway success. I've also known some who've done a lot and it's made a huge difference in their success as authors. And I've known some who've done nothing and have had nothing happen in return.
So what do I really mean? What I'm trying to say is that you should do what you think you can. And if you do, it'll be enough. Don't feel guilty that you aren't doing more.
Do what you can. It'll be enough.
Repeat with me.
Do what you can. It'll be enough.
4. The best promotion is word of mouth.
So give those mouths something to talk about. Write the BEST BOOK you can, and then get to work on the next BEST BOOK you can write. Writing good books over and over again is the best way to promote yourself.
And if you happen to mention my blog to a friend, I won't mind. Because word of mouth really is the best way to spread the word.

Comments
Thanks for chiming in!
Thanks for commenting!
Thanks for commenting. I really appreciate it!
This is going to be my new mantra!
(Of course, I'm a little biased since I came up with it. But still...) ;)
Thanks for sharing, Elissa :)
You are welcome, and thanks for commenting!
(And even if it isn't, at least you'll still have your health and well-being intact.)
Good luck, and thanks for commenting!
You're advice is incredibly helpful.
"Whatever you do, it's enough."
When I read that, I immediately knew what it meant. And I have to say: Good for you. It's a great belief to have and you've passed it on to 10+ other people by simply writing a blog entry!
Again, kudos!
Well, thank you for not giving up on commenting here. I appreciate it!
I'm working on a blog empire, but I'm way behind in blog minion numbers. Go figure.
Thanks for commenting, Jenn!
Okay, I now have an invisible blog empire. Go me! ;)
So thank you for this post. It made me happy. -Kai
And thank you for your comments. I agree (obviously) about responding to comments and getting turned off to bloggers who only blog for promotional reasons. I just want to comment on their blogs and tell them they don't HAVE to blog (or tweet, or whatever), because it's clear they aren't having any fun. The poor dears. I just want to put them out of their misery.
Anyway, thanks for stopping by!
And thanks for commenting. I appreciate it!
I like what you have to say. I've recently sold a book to a small press and the 'self-promotion' shadow looms. I'm going to remember your words. Thanks!
Thanks for stopping by (and yay for word of mouth)!
You can direct your efforts as wisely as possible, you can do what you can afford, mentally, emotionally, and financially, and after that it's time to focus on living a good life and writing more good stories. Exhausting yourself won't help your writing career, because there'll be no energy to write with. And all the promotion in the world is useless without something to promote!
However, most people exhaust themselves because they do too much, or feel guilty if they aren't out there promoting their book every second of the day. And that is mainly who I was thinking about when I wrote them.
So, if you do the best you can, it's enough.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I love the discussion, so thanks!
Suddenly pictures and words were overwhelming me; I had to write it down. Had trouble keeping the pen going as fast as the messages. When I looked at it, I had a WhoDunIt started. Who knew? Not I.
I told hubby what I wanted to write for my first time with Nanowrimo. His comment was, "And I sleep with you?" He got a belly laugh out of that one. The story's gonna be about a serial killer (or two). I'd explained the picture that had formed about how my first creep tortured and killed someone. I'd like to report he slept fine that night.
I don't understand some of the lingo. Don't be surprised if I pop up with a question after I've read one of your posts that is probably common knowledge to everyone else out there. Just had an author explain to me what head hopping is. As I said, I'm a fledgling writer.
Please drop by my journal when/if you ever have time and skim through. My daughter said she learned things about me she'd never known.
It's nice to meet you.
Word of warning, I write books for children and young adults, so often what I have to say may not be applicable to adult literature (er, I mean literature for adults, not "adult" literature, though what I have to say certainly doesn't apply to that type of literature either [ha ha]).
Oh, and FYI, I'll be happy to answer questions, but I have to admit that there's still a lot I don't know either. But I'm really great at searching the internet and finding the answers. ;)
Anyway, welcome.
One thing I have done is reply to every comment I ever get. I do decently here, but it's rare on my mirror blogspot to get many comments. I love it when I do! I know I have readers though that aren't signed up with an account so they read - because they tell me that in person - but never comment.
:-)
I had to do something while I struggled over that welcome message for our group blog. Grrr.... ;)
I didn't realize you were here (I think I follow you only on blogspot, which I'm not as familiar with so I don't check it as often as I do LJ. I'll have to friend you here so I can keep up better.
I'm glad you liked this post. It surprises me when a simple post of mine gets so much attention. Who knew I had such wisdom to share? ;)
And Wow! Big oops about forgetting to email you about your Welcome Message! My life is insane lately and it's not gonna get manageable for awhile - at least two more weeks until graduation next week is over, family coming out this week for it, and a school visit in L.A. the following week. But I did read it and didn't have anything else to really add other than what Mindy and I had already said. So I figured you'd send it to us again after you had a chance to finish and we could do a final spit and polish. Or did I miss that, too??? :-)
Don't worry about the email. I figured you had nothing to add (Mindy was pretty thorough), and I've been letting it sit until I tackle it again. It's a busy weekend with Mother's Day and my son's birthday. So you didn't miss another email. There hasn't been one yet.
Thanks for commenting, Anon!
First, I like this post. Too much stress on self-promotion these days. You need something to promote, yes, and you need to not exhaust yourself on something that may not pay off anyway. Enjoy yourself! is an advice I like!
Second: about answering comments on your blog. I see what you mean, and don't disagree in principle: don't ignore the people visiting your blog. But. When blogowners answer every single comment on their blog with something mechanic like "thanks for commenting", or empty like "I agree" just to say something, it becomes tedious more than nice imo. Also, I love it when real, interesting discussions break out in comment sections. Then a blogowner who insists on answering or commenting every single post may slow down the discussion more than help it. Sometimes discussions take on a life of their own, and you go somewhere as much to answer other commenters as communicate with the blogowner.
What I'm saying is, sometimes it is OK to look at the comments as a thread of discussion, not as single, isolated comments to your original post that just happens to be written after one another. Then what you need to do is be just another member of the discussion.
I would love it if my journal ended up hosting discussions like that. It hasn't yet, it's still pretty new. But one may dream...
You do make a valid point about commenting. There are times when it's hard to find anything new to say other than "thanks for commenting." And it's true that the blogowner could slow down the discussion if one did break out in the comments, though I wouldn't know from personal experience or anything.
However, I still stand behind the principle that people like to be acknowledged, and you have to admit that they are more likely to pick up your book if they think of you as a nice person. ("She answered MY post! Wow! She's so nice! I think I want to read her book.")
This is not criticising you, mind. I see that you strive to make all your comments to people personal, and you do seem to be a very nice person. That's why I have decided to look in here more.
And I should also mention that I write for kids, so my perception could be skewed just a little bit, too. It's pretty easy to impress a 10yo. LOL